It’s hard for a
Bear out there….or is it? I guess that would be depending on what category of
bear you put yourself in. What’s that? You didn’t realize there are different
categories of bears? Oh yes my
friend. Diversity is epidemic in
the Bear Community and there are some men out there that have a REAL problem
with it. They call themselves Post Bear.
The Post Bear long for the day where hirsute men with
average and heavyset builds could hang together in an easygoing environment
where beer was served and there would be a ballgame on the tube. They could
grope and paw at each other and sneak in a kiss and- hey- who knows- maybe
there would be a hook up after the game. Now wait a minute- since when did that
stop?
It’s not that those days are gone exactly, it’s just become
a different terrain. The intimacy is gone. The social gatherings hosted at
peoples houses- generated by feeling uncomfortable in a bar or club with the
insidious clone perfection standard of the 70s and early 80s-rarely happen. In
most cases they aren’t needed due to the popularity of Bear Runs. A Bear Run is
a 3 to 5 day event held where all forms of Bears can convene and cavort in a
(relatively) twink- free sexually
charged environment. Zaftig,
furry, men from all over the world build their vacations around Bear Runs. (If
there was some way to harness the sexual energy and convert it into
electricity, you could probably provide power to the Eastern Seaboard for a
year or more.) Imagine- if you
will-A bunch of homosexual men who have spent the last 11 months sexless in a
remote part of one of those square states in the middle of the US, gathering
all together in a place that’s clothing optional and serves alcohol - I can
assure you- the combo is nothing less than a conflagration and definitely worth
the price of admission.
It’s not the same though. –so say the Post Bears. The boys
that show up to Bear Runs now are younger and thinner. The creation of the “Muscle Bear”: the
very masculine very well muscled version of the species- has added even more
significant changes to the Bear Community. Slowly the chunkier guys slipped out
of the limelight. Twinks thought Musclebears were hot so they showed up where
the Muscle Bears went and the guys with a 40PLUSinch waistline didn’t have room
to move with all those Twinks and Muscle Bears taking up all that space! Now the big men weren’t the only game
in town, and what’s worse, they began to feel SELF-CONSCIOUS of their size.
They got mad. They were there FIRST!!! So the bigger men all got together and
decided to not…get together anymore and they stayed at home. They threw away
their Bear Wear and they never said Grrrr or Woof and secretly went on diets
and exercised more. They eschewed all things Ursine. They let the world know
that they had gone…. “Post Bear”
Well something had to give after months and months of all
that ridiculous diet and exercise crap. Eventually they started to return to
the Lairs that they knew so well…..But It got confusing. You’d hear how a Bear
hooked up with a skinny twink and they were “gasp” ..DATING!!! The big guys got
even more bewildered when they befriended the Muscle Bears. It all started when
a very burly, very buffed Dude cracked a very funny joke about Caprica on the
Syfy Channel – the Post Bears were
mesmerized! Then they all eagerly discussed the entire Call of Duty Gamer
series and lasting friendships were created!!
Here’s the thing fellas. “Post Bears” are the stuff of
unicorns and Big Foot. They have not organized. A coupla guys bitched about how
everything had gone bear crazy and they missed the days of the origins of the
movement. If you find yourself being negative about high profile bears and the
endless commercialization- quit bitching. Change is good. Get out there and
“come out” as a bear and do something good for the community. Show them you’re
happy and they can be too.
OR – you can call a few buds and meet at a Twink Bar, ask
them to turn on the Game and make out with each other, and have a few laughs..